Inevitable Homesickness
Whatever home is to you, it is inevitable that leaving it for a long amount of time will leave you feeling off in some way or another. Even though I have considered Copenhagen my home away from home for the past three months, there have definitely been times where I have simply wanted to just be sitting on my couch at home surrounded by the people that I know and love. I miss my friends and I miss my family, so whenever I see something that reminds me of them, I can see how I retreat from this city and from my experience here.
There is no easy trick to get rid of this feeling, and I think sometimes embracing homesickness can help you to be more comfortable in whatever foreign setting you find yourself in. I have personally found that when I catch myself missing home, it has been nice to just be with myself and either listen to good music or watch a movie that reminds me of something or someone back in D.C.
I guess what my main advice would be is to acknowledge, in any way you can, that homesickness is a good thing. It just means that there is something in this new place that is letting you test your comfort level. Change can be hard, and being in a foreign country for a whole semester can be even harder, so rather than ignoring homesickness, try to embrace it in any way you can.
Family Visit
Of course, a good way to put away this feeling is to have people you love come into this new world with you. I had the awesome chance to have my parents and two of my siblings come and visit me over the second travel week, and boy was it nice to see them! This was one of the longest times I had gone without seeing my parents, and it felt so amazing to get to share my abroad experience with them. I was proud to show off what I had been up to this semester, and excited to be with them in this new setting!
The eventual day my family arrived, there were gusts of wind so strong that they almost brought me off of my feet at times. It didn’t matter how cold we were or how much the wind stung our breath, because I finally had a piece of home in Copenhagen. I met them all halfway between their Airbnb and my apartment, and as I turned a corner I saw my dad’s obnoxious orange jacket glow out of the crowd of black and dark gray coats. I ran up and hugged them probably more dramatically than 3 months apart deserved, and then turned away into our week, sightseeing and bracing the cold together.
A lot of what we did that week were things I had already done, but it was still really cool to be able to be more of the tour guide rather than the tourist. They all saw me as a local (always cool to say), and in that way I could lead them through some of the highlights of Copenhagen. Here are some of the things we were up to, and maybe it will be helpful for anyone who has either friends or family coming to visit them during their DIS semester!
1. Getting a Good View
The first place I recommend getting a great view of Copenhagen is the Round Tower. This is not as tiring as some other tower view spots since it is mostly a ramp up to the top, rather than stairs. There was also a cool exhibition on Nordic Noir art which was a welcomed detour on our mission to the top.
Another great (and equally touristy) spot to get a great view is The Church of Our Savior. My dad, sister and I woke up on the early side to walk up to the top of this church, which ended up being great because we largely missed the crowd. Although it was a lot of stairs, and included some slightly terrifying heights, this ended up being one of my favorite things I did during my week with my family. The church is in Christianshavn, so from the top we got a great view of the city center!
2. The Grandeur of Castles
When I first came to Copenhagen, I was very quickly enchanted with the Castles that are scattered in and around Copenhagen. They are not hard to fall in love with since they were literally meant to show off the excesses of the Danish royalty and power. By the end of their week long stay we ended up visiting Rosenborg, Kronborg, and Frederiksborg Castles, and even though I had already been to the first two, it was still really fun to get to see them again through my families eyes. They also make great day trips when pared with a museum. Here I talk about some of my favorite museums to go to in Copenhagen. I specifically think that doing a day trip to Louisiana Museum and Kronborg castle is super doable!
3. Day Trips Out of the City
There is definitely no shortage of things to do in Copenhagen, but if you want to get away from the city center, there are some other places to go to in and around Zealand that are super cool! Of course, you could head to one of the above mentioned castles, or to a neighboring city like Aarhus or Malmö. One of the day trips that we did was one to Møns Klint (The White Cliffs). Other than the sheer beauty of this area, it was also really cool to be able to rent a car and drive out to this spot. It’s around a two hour drive south of Copenhagen, and in that time we drove out of the city, onto a highway, and through the hilly picturesque island of Møn. It’s safe to say that in the low altitude country of Denmark, cliffs seemed a little surprising, but all the while beautiful!